Cats are the most unpredictable pets out there. Or are they? We have always known cats as being aloof but that doesn’t mean that they do not understand or communicate anything. All animals, just like humans, use their bodies to communicate different things. When it comes to cats, they can be quite subtle and complicated. But learning the way they communicate can really help you strengthen your bond. You’ve already taken the first step by searching for this, now let us help you with the rest.
Let’s start with the happy feelings first.
Body Language of a Happy Cat
A few signs that indicate that your cat is happy are – (1)
Limbs and the tail stretched out away from the body while lying down.
Upright ears facing forward
Upright tail, sometimes curved at the tip.
Half-closed eyes as against wide and alert.
Slow blinking (a sign of trust and love).
Showing their tummy (a sign of greeting and trust).
A small hop when they see you.
When your Cat wants to Play
The hunter’s spirits in them get charged up when they want to play. You can be assertive of a playful mood if your cat is showing the following signs – (1)
Big eyes with dilated pupils. (this is also the same for humans bdw when they get excited by something)
Up and forward-facing ears.
Wagging their tail while checking the surroundings for something that interests them.
Note that just because your cat is showing its tummy to you doesn’t mean it’s inviting a belly rub. And now that you’ve gotten an idea of how to identify a happy cat, here are some signs to tell you that your cat is not in a great mood.
Body Language of a Stressed or Anxious Cat
Many things can get your cat stressed or anxious. Schedule changes, new environment, other cats, illness, pain, separation from you or your family, loud noises, etc. are some of the reasons. If our feline babies could talk, it would be much easier to know what exactly are they feeling. However, they do communicate these feelings with us with their body. This is how you can identify a stressed cat – (3)
Their bodies are the exact opposite of when they are happy – stiff and held low to the ground.
Defecation or urination outside the litter box
Whiskers held further than normal
Ears rotated to the sides like aeroplane wings.
The tail held close to the body.
Thrashing or thumping the tail.
Attempts to hide as against asking for attention.
Fearful Cat’s Body Language
The vast majority of animal attacks involve fear on the animal's part; they are afraid you will attack them, their young, or you are approaching their territory and scaring them. The ways cats show that they are afraid are – (3)
Arched back to look bigger and more intimidating
Upright and stiff tail
Their fur standing on the end
Whiskers pointing at the thing making them feel threatened
Growling or hissing to warn the threat off
A loud yowl followed by a shriek to indicate that they are about to defend themselves.
An aggressive may show similar signs. They may also spit, a sudden and explosive burst of noise that is often accompanied by a lunge or swat.
While it is important to know the above signs to recognize a happy or a sad cat, it is more important to know when the cat is sick. There is a difference between a relaxed arch and a frightened arch though. The former is like a downward dog position while the later with the back arched upwards.
Body Language of a Sick Cat
Coughing, sneezing, or clutching may be obvious signs of sickness in us humans. But most of the time, we can also tell from the person’s face that he/she is sick. Cats also show some physical signs apart from the obvious ones that can tell us they need vet attention. These include - (1)
Hunched body with legs tucked underneath.
Shut, dazed or glassy eyes.
Visible third eyelid, the pink tissue in the corner of the eyes.
Closely wrapped tail.
Increased purring, meowing or yowling.
Apart from these signs like decreased energy levels, lack of appetite, excessive grooming, etc. may also be a sign of an underlying medical condition.
Cat Tail Language
Cat tails tell tales. You can know a lot about the cat’s mood, energy levels, and whether you are welcomed or not by observing their tails. It’s the position and movement of the tail that talks. Here’s a quick brief for you – (2)
High position – It is usually a sign of confidence, happiness and a willingness to be friendly. If the tip of that high tail is a little twitched, you’re lucky. You’ve just got a perfectly happy cat.
Curved like a question mark – It is another indicator of a happy mood, more to say ‘Let’s play!’.
Low position – A straight-down tail usually means stress or anxiety. It can be followed by aggression as well. You might want to stay cautious here. Some breeds like the Persian are an exception to this rule though. They hold their tails low, usually for no apparent reason.
Tucked away tail – This means a submissive mood. You might want to check the surroundings in this case. There could be something making the cat nervous.
Puffed up – This one is not a great sign as it usually indicates that the cat is frightened and is trying to look bigger and more intimidating.
Whipping motion – A rapid back-and-forth slapping of the tail is another indicator of a stressed, fearful or aggressive cat.
Slowly swaying – A tail in swishing motion indicates a focused cat. You would usually see this before your cat pounces on a toy or food.
Body Language and Cat Ears Meaning
Just like the tail, ears are another avenue for cats to express what they are feeling. When a cat's ears are pointed forward, it generally indicates that the cat is alert, interested, or curious about its surroundings. Ears that are flattened or turned sideways, like the wings of an airplane, usually signify that the cat is feeling threatened, frightened, or anxious. Ears that are twitching can denote irritation or indecision.
Why Do Cats Flick Their Tails?
A cat may either vibrate or flick its tail. Both have different meanings. When a cat’s tail vibrates or quivers, it is usually a sign of excitement. You will see the same vibration before a cat spray marks something with urine. The context is the key here.
Flicking, on the other hand, is usually a sign of agitation or alertness. Cats tend to flick their tails while watching their prey before they go for a hunt. You might even see this behavior when you get a new toy for your cat. So, if you see your cat flick their tail, it would be a good call to just back off and allow them some space.
Understanding a Cat’s Whisker Language
If eyes, tails, body, etc. aren’t enough for you to gauge the mood of your cat, whiskers also talk. Maybe not that much, but you can get a hint. For example, a cat will bring its whiskers close to their face when frightened or anxious. A confident and happy cat, on the other hand, will push the whiskers forward. However, it is always better to look for more signs before confirming anything by just looking at the whiskers.
About Cat Vocalizations
Lastly, the most direct way a cat will try to communicate anything is by using different types of voices. If you think that ‘meow’ is the only sound that cats make, you haven’t observed one carefully. A cat uses growls, hisses, yowls, purrs, etc. to communicate different moods.
‘Meow’ is the primary sound that cats use to communicate with humans. It is to get our attention to mostly either ask for food or express discomfort. A soft ‘meow’ is usually a greeting, while a long one may indicate a stronger demand or distress.
Purrs are considered to be a sign of contentment and comfort. However, cats may also purr when they are in pain or anxious as a self-soothing mechanism. Hissing, on the other hand, is a defensive vocalization that indicates fear, aggression, or discomfort. It’s like a warning to stay away. Growling is the more serious version of hissing. Yowling is a long, drawn-out meow that can indicate mating calls, territorial disputes, or discomfort, especially in older cats.
You may even hear other sounds like howling, trilling, chirping, etc. Looking at the context, you may be able to figure out the meaning. If you do, it will show the strength of your bond with your cat.
I’m Charlie: canine enthusiast with a knack for figuring out why my dog, Dallas, is more infatuated with tennis balls than me. My lifelong passion for dogs has created a dedication to help other pet parents better understands their furry family members!
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