If you’ve been on social media long enough, you’ve likely come across conflicting viewpoints on dogs and access to furniture in the home. Some say it’s a bad idea to let dogs on furniture, and others scoff at the thought of their dogs not being able to spend time with them on the couch or bed.
So who is right and who is wrong? Let’s break it down.
Trust Unlocks Freedom
The furniture often is not the issue. It’s how much we can trust our dogs to behave inside our homes during the day. But how does that connect to the couch or bed?
Think about it this way: if your dog spends most of the day jumping on and off the couch, pacing around, settling down, then repeating the cycle all over again, are they really learning how to relax? Or are they learning that constant stimulation and unpredictability are part of the routine? That’s where the problem can start to develop.
The Couch/Bed Often Leads to Reactive Behavior
How many dogs do we encounter on our walks around the neighborhood, sitting by the window, perched on top of the couch or bed, waiting for the next dog or person to walk by the window? They may seem calm… Until they’re not.
The couch in this case is providing the leverage for this dog in particular to continue rehearsing their reactive habits. Therefore, in this case, we would want to remove their access to the couch to teach healthier patterns throughout the day.
But, should this be permanent? or temporary?
Not Forever, Just For Now
When we’re working to achieve greater calmness and reliability in our dogs, we have to remember that it’s not a “forever thing”.
New patterns take time to develop, yes, but once we have more trust in our dogs, we can slowly give them back those same luxuries in moderation.
This allows us to still be able to enjoy our dogs, while at the same time, understand how we can help them to achieve healthier habits.
In Closing
If your dog is overly stimulated throughout the day, you may want to think about removing raised surfaces in the home to help them achieve a true calm mental state. Everything else can be introduced later. At a pace your dog understands.
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